Let me provide a possible reason why your bank account gets disconnect in QuickBooks Online.
This happens when your bank is in the process of being updated or updating in the background. And, great job for reconnecting again the account. This is the solution to keep everything up-to-date.
Once completed, your transactions will downloaded automatically. You can start reviewing each transactions and assigned categories on it. Also, I'm adding these articles as additional resources on how you can manage your bank transactions: