Company File Update doesn't work

Hello,

We recently updated QuickBooks Enterprise 24 Desktop. It's now requiring us to update the company file. I tried it on one computer, left it running for 20+ hours but it still didn't finish. During the process there was nothing on the screen, just gray. Not even a progress bar. Other people need to use the computer so I had to cancel it. Then I left it running on another computer overnight it crashed saying there was not enough memory. It had 32GB, I don't know if it needs more.

My question is how long does this normally take? How much memory is required? Our company file is 2 GB. I avoid running it on the server computer because if it doesn't work then a lot of processes will be halted. The server has 64 GB. Will that make a difference?