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It's important to note that changing the HST amount on a bill will change the total amount. Are you working with a custom tax code that requires a specific rate? If so, have you looked into setting up and using a custom tax code? Feel free to share any other valuable information that can help me get a better visual of what you're looking to accomplish. You're more than welcome to send screenshots as long you cover any personal information that may appear on the screenshot.
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If your bill has partial HST charged on it you can edit/overwrite the HST amount that is calculated.
Click in the HST box/field (below the Subtotal) and enter the actual HST charged. When you SAVE this entry the HST will be saved with the amount you entered. NOTE: if you make any edits to the entry it is possible that QBO will recalculate the HST and it will be out of balance with your original entry...